~*~Irvine~*~

Saturday, June 18, 2005

Quote from someone...

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this guy i am seeing, sometimes he is too good to be true, so much so that i am already predicting when i will leave him.
humans are like this, we get scared when something good happens to us, either beacause we do not believe such good luck can happen to us, or we simply do not want to lose this wonder in our lives.
a lot of couples i know plan for their future in their relationship. one of my friend told me that if he didnt see a future in a relationship, he will not get into it. but that is for straight couples; how many gay couples can actually stay for very long? the longest i have ever known is eight years. my friend's bf left him cuz the latter found no excitment anymore, and went on to search for fresher catch.
guys, when u want to get attached, bear in mind that sooner or later , the honey moon period will end. romance is limited. when it finally ends, you will have to see whether by then, your partner has become an intrinsic part of your life or not. if yes, then the relationship can safely go into a more stable, mellow but strong phase of habit.
maybe when we are still young, excitement rules. but as we age, our capacity to play games decreases rapidly, and we yearn to settle down asap. so bear in mind, if you are going from relationship to another just for the sake of finding pple fresh and new, you are so gonna get burned over and over again until you raise up your hand to heaven and plead to give you someone whom you can finally and really talk to and settle down with.
so while the honey moon period is still raging, try and lay the foundation for phase two ,;if you truly love your bf and wanna spend your lifetime with him, you have to do it, really.
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